The move in

I feel that before someone is moved into a family home that everyone has the right to talk about how they feel. Well in my case that didn't happen. Ya I know I'm in my late 30s and I should be past games but I'm not playing here. I don't like this woman my father has brought into my house. All they do is fight and argue. She gets upset when I stay in my room saying I'm being rude to her. Well guess what I will continue to keep to myself.  I don't like you in my house. I don't like you changing things and making messes for me to clean up. I also don't like how you have just thrown away my mother's things. I should have been asked if I wanted something. I may not have had a good relationship with my mother but I still have the right to see her things before they are trashed.