Lies Breaks Family Trust

When a little white lie seams so simple to avoid conflict you need to ask yourself why there would be conflict in the first place. In this situation it was a woman showing her friend that she can be trusted to not take from her family. Well a lie was made a little white lie they thought and not it's the one lie that is tearing the family apart. I don't know who I can trust in my own family and yes sadly this includes my own father as he was a part of the lie, he says it was his idea. They said it was to avoid hurting me in the first place, well I am not stupid and I found out. Now they are trying to say that I am the one in the wrong!! That I am taking things to far!! I was lied to I didn't lie to them. I want to tell her to leave and to not look back at my family to just leave. I am so upset that I can't even feel my own feelings or think my own thoughts.